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Iman Cave Clips et est présentée par [vid_author_name]. Voici la description correspondante :« Comment commence la dépendance au porno et à quel point est-il mauvais pour les hommes? Sh. Abdullah Oduro et le Dr Omar Husain discutent de l’impact préjudiciable du porno sur le cerveau et des façons dont il peut éroder les relations. Pour plus de ressources sur la façon de surmonter la dépendance, veuillez consulter notre article sur le sujet: https://yaqeeninstitute.org/read/paper/how-to-overcome-addiction-through-faith-ibn-al-qayyims-rehabilitation-program, consultez l’épisode complet ici:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ihmsxvr7sgc&list=plq02iyl5pmhesicsvuoyvmlf_rwy0s8ew&index=12 Cliquez sur Abonnez-vous et appuyez sur l’icône pour recevoir les dernières mises à jour de Yaqeen! Visitez http://www.yaqeeninstitute.org pour un accès complet à toutes les publications de recherche, infographies et vidéos. Rejoignez la conversation sur Twitter, Facebook et Instagram @YaqeenInstitute! (Tagstotranslate) Yaqeen Institute ».

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Appréhender la dépendance à la consommation pornographique

Étudier les processus psychologiques impliqués

Le circuit de récompense, suractivé par la pornographie, conditionne le cerveau à rechercher continuellement cette stimulation, intensifiant la dépendance et le mal-être psychologique.

Évaluer les signaux d’une dépendance

Une dépendance au porno se manifeste par une recherche constante de contenu, malgré les effets négatifs sur la vie quotidienne et les relations.

Mesurer l’influence du porno sur les relations et les obligations quotidiennes

L’addiction peut modifier les dynamiques des relations sexuelles, nuire à la confiance personnelle et entraver la création de liens affectifs profonds. L’utilisation excessive de contenus pornographiques peut favoriser une dépendance émotionnelle étroitement liée à ces images

Développer un plan méthodique pour surmonter l’addiction

Établir des ambitions mesurables et concrètes

L’efficacité d’un plan de sevrage réside dans des objectifs bien définis, comme réduire progressivement le temps de consommation de porno. La réflexion sur les raisons sous-jacentes et les bénéfices à long terme sont des éléments clés pour réussir.

Organiser un lieu qui soutient la récupération

Restreindre l’accès aux contenus pornographiques par des extensions de navigateur ou des applications de contrôle parental est un moyen de limiter les tentations. Encourager des activités productives et constructives peut également être efficace pour gérer les compulsions.

Créer des stratégies pour contrôler les impulsions

Pour éviter les comportements impulsifs, il faut repérer les facteurs déclencheurs. La TCC, la substitution par des loisirs sains et le soutien d’autrui sont des techniques utiles.

Identifier les moyens d’assistance existants

Adhérer à des groupes de partage et de soutien

Les groupes de soutien offrent un lieu d’échange où les participants peuvent partager leurs vécus, découvrir des stratégies éprouvées et recevoir du soutien pendant leur rétablissement.

Prendre contact avec un professionnel en santé mentale

Se tourner vers un thérapeute expert en dépendances comportementales, comme un psychologue utilisant la TCC, permet de repérer les causes sous-jacentes et de bénéficier d’un accompagnement sur mesure.

Mettre à profit les outils numériques et applications pour suivre l’évolution

Certaines applications et outils numériques aident à suivre les progrès, en envoyant des rappels motivants et en favorisant l’adoption d’habitudes positives pour réduire l’exposition à des contenus pornographiques.

Construire une identité qui s’épanouit sans dépendre de la pornographie

Adopter une approche éthique de la sexualité

Adopter des principes éthiques dans la sexualité permet de se rapprocher d’une intimité plus sincère et respectueuse L’arrêt de la pornographie demande une réflexion approfondie, des ressources adéquates et un accompagnement continu. Grâce à la compréhension de la dépendance et à une démarche planifiée, on peut surmonter cette dépendance et vivre une sexualité plus saine. Éviter les déclencheurs et se fixer des objectifs réalistes permet de mieux gérer (voir le lien sur le site très connu chasteté.fr).

Construire une vie plus responsable grâce à des choix réfléchis

Explorer des pratiques enrichissantes, comme la méditation ou le yoga, crée une connexion corps-esprit forte qui aide à limiter les envies excessives

Des connexions positives apportent un soutien au quotidien

L’intimité vraie et partagée aide à vivre une sexualité plus naturelle, loin de l’influence des contenus pornographiques

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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: this year porn how is that detrimental to a young man’s development there’s a lot to discuss there I think some would refer to it as the porn demic wow okay right um it’s out there it’s widespread and the exposure is getting younger and younger last last I saw the reers like as young as nine oh gosh and a lot of times it’s not even intentional right and this is very important when it comes to those who surround the person with the addiction to help them because a lot of times it’s unintentional exposure what nine-year-old is going on intentionally looking for stuff right something pops up something at school right and so that can lead to that the problem with um with this particularly for men is it’s basically Shan twisting something which naturally we have inherent in us we have a natural attraction for women as a matter of fact it is the greatest tribulation Prophet said in bukari and Muslim that I have not left a Temptation greater for men it’s not diminishing women’s status by any means but this is a reality now we want to pretend it doesn’t exist that’s fine you can go live in your you know FY but we’ll live in reality here uh so this is a a great trial and tribulation for men and so this is the ultimate form of exaggerating that you know we talked about dopamine dopamine when we walk when you walk in here to do this there’s a hit of dopamine like oh we’re gonna have going to be fun right now what what these dictions do is they get us to unnatural levels of DOP mean that we weren’t designed to handle and so now that becomes the norm you see so now if you can just swipe or type in a web address and you can see anything you want and you can see 20 different women in an hour now when it’s time for the Halal relationship it’s not as appealing because that person is not artificial that person uh has emotions that person has ups and downs right and this is the greatest thing for for young men who are on the edge or not involved that that’s it it can very there’s a high probability it’s going to affect you later on when Allah gave you an outlet to make it Hal which is through marriage right this whole thing like dirty and all that no no there we have uh etiquette as Muslims of course but alhamdulillah within a context of marriage so if if some young brother’s watching there he’s like oh I know I saw some or my friends are watching it just be warned this could this could affect your life for years and years to come and it may even affect it in other ways which maybe for the older audience they would understand as well yeah um so that’s that’s why again it goes back to the prevention is is the most uh that’s the most important thing in terms of other things that can happen to your question we find uh It’s Not Unusual to start on something more tame and then it gets in more more nastier and nastier and you’ll find the person will be saying after a year they’re like man I remember I just started I would like watch some provocative videos You Know music videos or something it wasn’t porn but now I can’t I like I’m disgusted with myself but I’m getting like what happened it’s it’s just like a substance you build up tolerance right that’s why the drug dealer on the on the playground the first hit is free mhm wants to draw you in they draw you in yeah and then so so this kind of gets them in and then but after a while that’s not enough yep so you need you need something more you need something more right yeah Subhan Allah um and it’s actually growing in young Muslim women as well not at the same levels of men but absolutely prevalent so I you know I I’ve worked with clients that you see like you know they maybe they had an you know an affair or did other things where did it all start you know started with a pornography really that’s where it started it creates a fantasy that they want into reality it’s a fantasy and they want and they have to fulfill that fantasy right subh Allah there’s so much that comes from this I mean Subhan Allah you think of and it just reminded me I remember um it was an 8-year-old boy he received this from his friend a small strip of paper and it had a it was like an address on there like an email address something he went on there and it was a porn site so then he went and told his mom come to find out that eight the other 8-year-old boy was giving this to other 8-year-old boys in the classroom right so it’s kind of like that’s insane yeah but you find just like you mentioned it’s a natural thing within us to be attracted to the opposite gender maybe now with even eight-year-olds suban Allah which is about a good seven years before even puberty hits you know but sometimes it’s like that 8-year-old has maybe 15-year-old Brothers 16 that they want to be like right yes and they’re see which is natural yes which is normal which is good right or they may catch their father true uncle right yeah doing some of these things right and say okay boy you watch this and then you know or learn from this right what I’ve seen is that Subhan Allah it creates unrealistic expectations makes them very irresponsible this a really good book um the boy crisis by War F you know he talks about how you know the effects of of porn and from that is it takes this this very this very honorable uh uh Union between a man and a women and it cheapens it yeah to where when you look at now I’ve seen you know young men you look at young Muslim women you know at these conferences the Islamic conferences and they look at them as a piece of meat yeah they they just start rating them start rating start rating them that’s like a go-to every single guy you’ll talk to if there’s women that pass by seven out of 10 SE really yeah yo that’s CRA you could be I mean doesn’t even matter what the age group is you could be with like a bunch of 30y olds maybe who are even married and it just it’s just a joke I mean it became a joke but in reality it did start in a very dark place that interesting interesting yeah interesting yeah so you just look at him as as as as a body like you said it’s a conquest it’s a sub Subhan Allah and that is very unhealthy for the Muslim man that’s going to be responsible because it takes him on more of an animalistic approach and that’s where you know some times they’ll find themselves you know if you imagine imagine if you combined all three of these right video games weed and porn I mean you probably will be someone that doesn’t know doesn’t know how to communicate to where in the future when you speak to a potential father-in-law you don’t know how to talk to him yeah he’s going to look at you like yo can we hold a conversation and you’re not there responsible you probably you probably have a job a degree maybe but you don’t seem like you have any goals or ambition because you’re always on weed and then you may look at the female his daughter as someone that is just a piece of meat someone that is not someone that you would respect and honor that’s going to be a future mother wife and a mother yeah wife and mother and that’s why the beauty of the sun of the Prophet when he says your mother your mother your mother when he ask the prophet who has the most right of my companionship I think I think it’s crucial always as Muslims this is connected to a higher purpose right I I can give you a secular argument against uh marijuana I give you a secular argument against pornography and those can can be useful but that’s not what it’s all about because eventually you it’s it’s going to end with well if you don’t have any belief in something else well then as long as you’re not hurting anybody can do whatever you want and and what is the argument against that if you don’t have any purpose if you don’t think you’re going to be you know resurrected and questioned then let’s be honest we would just do whatever we want right if we didn’t have Islam who knows where life would be yeah that’s why it’s a it’s a foundation you know it’s it’s the anchor that brings it all together you take it back is a NE it’s a core component it has to be part of this process for anyone trying to get out of these things if it’s not you know then there’s just there’s a huge hole that’s not going to be fixed .

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5.2 this year porn how is that detrimental
9.679 to a young man’s development there’s a
12.28 lot to discuss there I think some would
13.96 refer to it as the porn demic wow okay
17.199 right um it’s out there it’s widespread
20.6 and the exposure is getting younger and
22.439 younger last last I saw the reers like
25.039 as young as nine oh gosh and a lot of
28.359 times it’s not even intentional right
30.359 and this is very important when it comes
31.88 to those who surround the person with
35.28 the addiction to help them because a lot
37.0 of times it’s unintentional exposure
38.64 what nine-year-old is going on
41.0 intentionally looking for stuff right
42.52 something pops up something at school
45.0 right and so that can lead to that the
48.6 problem with um with this particularly
51.12 for men is it’s basically
53.6 Shan twisting something which naturally
56.359 we have inherent in us we have a natural
59.519 attraction
60.68 for women as a matter of fact it is the
62.84 greatest
67.2 tribulation Prophet said in bukari and
70.119 Muslim that I have not left a Temptation
73.0 greater for men it’s not diminishing
75.119 women’s status by any means but this is
77.799 a reality now we want to pretend it
79.24 doesn’t exist that’s fine you can go
80.92 live in your you know FY but we’ll live
83.32 in reality here uh so this is a a great
87.04 trial and tribulation for men and so
89.119 this is the ultimate form of
91.799 exaggerating that you know we talked
92.92 about dopamine dopamine when we walk
95.439 when you walk in here to do this there’s
97.2 a hit of dopamine like oh we’re gonna
98.479 have going to be fun right now what what
101.64 these dictions do is they get us to
104.079 unnatural levels of DOP mean that we
106.04 weren’t designed to handle and so now
108.52 that becomes the norm you see so now if
112.0 you can just swipe or type in a web
115.36 address and you can see anything you
116.84 want and you can see 20 different women
118.92 in an hour now when it’s time for the
121.759 Halal relationship it’s not as appealing
124.52 because that person is not artificial
127.52 that person uh has emotions that person
130.72 has ups and downs right and this is the
134.04 greatest thing for for young men who are
135.879 on the edge or not involved that that’s
139.2 it it can very there’s a high
141.48 probability it’s going to affect you
143.879 later on when Allah gave you an outlet
146.28 to make it Hal which is through marriage
148.92 right this whole thing like dirty and
150.92 all that no no there we have uh
153.48 etiquette as Muslims of course but
155.879 alhamdulillah within a context of
157.879 marriage so if if some young brother’s
160.56 watching there he’s like oh I know I saw
162.239 some or my friends are watching it just
164.159 be warned this could this could affect
167.0 your life for years and years to come
169.599 and it may even affect it in other ways
171.159 which maybe for the older audience they
173.319 would understand as well yeah um so
176.08 that’s that’s why again it goes back to
178.08 the prevention is is the most uh that’s
180.56 the most important thing in terms of
183.0 other things that can happen to your
184.4 question we find uh It’s Not Unusual to
187.92 start on something more tame and then it
191.12 gets in more more nastier and nastier
195.12 and you’ll find the person will be
196.64 saying after a year they’re like man I
198.72 remember I just started I would like
200.36 watch some provocative videos You Know
202.48 music videos or something it wasn’t porn
205.48 but now I can’t I like I’m disgusted
207.84 with myself but I’m getting like what
209.519 happened
210.599 it’s it’s just like a substance you
212.599 build up tolerance right that’s why the
215.64 drug dealer on the on the playground the
217.48 first hit is free mhm wants to draw you
219.68 in they draw you in yeah and then so so
222.12 this kind of gets them in and then but
224.68 after a while that’s not enough yep so
227.159 you need you need something more you
228.76 need something more right yeah Subhan
230.439 Allah um and it’s actually growing in
232.04 young Muslim women as well not at the
234.239 same levels of men but absolutely
236.56 prevalent so I you know I I’ve worked
239.2 with clients that you see like you know
241.48 they maybe they had an you know an
243.799 affair or did other things where did it
247.079 all start you know started with a
249.159 pornography really that’s where it
250.959 started it creates a fantasy that they
252.64 want into reality it’s a fantasy and
254.68 they want and they have to fulfill that
256.0 fantasy right subh Allah there’s so much
258.28 that comes from this I mean Subhan Allah
259.68 you think of and it just reminded me I
262.16 remember um it was an 8-year-old boy he
265.759 received this from his friend a small
267.6 strip of paper and it had a it was like
271.12 an address on there like an email
272.6 address something he went on there and
273.919 it was a porn site so then he went and
276.24 told his mom come to find out that eight
278.44 the other 8-year-old boy was giving this
280.72 to other 8-year-old boys in the
282.199 classroom right so it’s kind of like
284.84 that’s insane yeah but you find just
286.96 like you mentioned it’s a natural thing
288.84 within us to be attracted to the
290.52 opposite gender maybe now with even
292.68 eight-year-olds suban Allah which is
294.28 about a good seven years before even
295.68 puberty hits you know but sometimes it’s
298.84 like that 8-year-old has maybe
300.52 15-year-old Brothers 16 that they want
302.6 to be like right yes and they’re see
304.72 which is natural yes which is normal
306.4 which is good right or they may catch
308.28 their
309.6 father true uncle right yeah doing some
313.199 of these things right and say okay boy
314.919 you watch this and then you know or
316.8 learn from this right what I’ve seen is
319.88 that Subhan Allah it creates unrealistic
321.96 expectations makes them very
323.12 irresponsible this a really good book um
325.199 the boy crisis by War F you know he
327.72 talks about how you know the effects of
329.44 of porn and from that is it takes this
332.08 this very this very honorable uh uh
336.24 Union between a man and a women and it
338.24 cheapens it yeah to where when you look
340.6 at now I’ve seen you know young men you
343.16 look at young Muslim women you know at
344.639 these conferences the Islamic
346.0 conferences and they look at them as a
347.919 piece of meat yeah they they just start
349.56 rating them start rating start rating
351.72 them that’s like a go-to every single
353.68 guy you’ll talk to if there’s women that
355.28 pass by seven out of 10 SE really yeah
359.12 yo that’s CRA you could be I mean
361.319 doesn’t even matter what the age group
362.84 is you could be with like a bunch of 30y
365.28 olds maybe who are even married and it
367.72 just it’s just a joke I mean it became a
369.599 joke but in reality it did start in a
371.56 very dark place that interesting
374.199 interesting yeah interesting yeah so you
376.36 just look at him as as as as a body like
378.479 you said it’s a conquest it’s a sub
381.56 Subhan Allah and that is very unhealthy
383.16 for the Muslim man that’s going to be
384.96 responsible because it takes him on more
386.919 of an animalistic approach and that’s
388.599 where you know some times they’ll find
390.319 themselves you know if you imagine
391.759 imagine if you combined all three of
392.88 these right video games weed and
395.56 porn I mean you probably will be someone
397.96 that doesn’t know doesn’t know how to
400.08 communicate to where in the future when
402.0 you speak to a potential father-in-law
404.479 you don’t know how to talk to him yeah
406.36 he’s going to look at you like yo can we
408.08 hold a conversation and you’re not there
410.4 responsible you probably you probably
411.599 have a job a degree maybe but you don’t
413.96 seem like you have any goals or ambition
416.36 because you’re always on weed and then
418.36 you may look at the female his daughter
421.4 as someone that is just a piece of meat
423.44 someone that is not someone that you
424.8 would respect and honor that’s going to
426.199 be a future mother wife and a mother
428.36 yeah wife and mother and that’s why the
429.879 beauty of the sun of the Prophet when he
431.4 says your mother your mother your mother
433.879 when he ask the prophet who has the most
435.599 right of my companionship I think I
437.52 think it’s crucial always as Muslims
439.68 this is connected to a higher purpose
441.879 right I I can give you a secular
444.24 argument against uh marijuana I give you
446.72 a secular argument against pornography
448.599 and those can can be useful but that’s
451.599 not what it’s all about because
453.08 eventually you it’s it’s going to end
455.12 with well if you don’t have any belief
456.639 in something else well then as long as
458.52 you’re not hurting anybody can do
460.4 whatever you want and and what is the
462.479 argument against that if you don’t have
464.08 any purpose if you don’t think you’re
465.84 going to be you know resurrected and
467.479 questioned then let’s be honest we would
470.4 just do whatever we want right if we
471.919 didn’t have Islam who knows where life
473.319 would be yeah that’s why it’s a it’s a
476.52 foundation you know it’s it’s the anchor
477.96 that brings it all together you take it
479.199 back is a NE it’s a core component it
481.319 has to be part of this process for
483.319 anyone trying to get out of these things
485.12 if it’s
486.159 not you know then there’s just there’s a
488.8 huge hole that’s not going to be fixed
.