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Maria Ahlin « Nous devons parler de porno! Nous devons parler du message que le porno envoie et de ce qu’il enseigne à nos enfants! Un contenu de plus en plus extrême trouvé dans le porno traditionnel, ce qui rend les gens moins sensibles à l’agression sexuelle. Malgré ces faits alarmants, le porno est toujours l’un de nos plus grands tabous. Aujourd’hui, la plupart des enfants sont d’abord exposés à la pornographie à un âge inquiétant, en fait, le porno est le premier éducateur sexuel chez les jeunes adolescents. Le porno est un médicament, mais pourquoi n’est-il pas traité comme une dépendance? En plus d’être un conférencier, l’auteur et éducatrice Maria est également responsable de l’organisation de la jeunesse «changements changeants». En tant qu’expert en questions concernant la pornographie et l’achat de sexe, elle a donné plus de 400 pourparlers publics. Dans ses recherches, elle a rencontré plus de 500 personnes dans la prostitution, ainsi que des milliers de délinquants sexuels. Cette conférence a été donnée lors d’un événement TEDX en utilisant le format TED Conference mais organisée indépendamment par une communauté locale. En savoir plus sur https://www.ted.com/tedx (tagstotranslate) tedxtalks ».

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Étudier la dépendance à la pornographie

Analyser les changements induits par le porno dans les activités journalières

L’addiction altère la santé des relations intimes, l’image de soi et la capacité à interagir émotionnellement. Une surconsommation de porno peut renforcer un lien émotionnel centré sur ces contenus

Évaluer les signaux d’une dépendance

L’addiction à la pornographie se caractérise par une utilisation persistante malgré des impacts négatifs sur les relations et la carrière.

Investiguer les dynamiques internes et leurs impacts

Des mécanismes de plaisir cérébral, associés à la dopamine, expliquent pourquoi la consommation de pornographie devient une addiction, aggravant les pensées négatives et le sentiment de perte de contrôle.

Explorer les options d’aide qui existent

Adhérer à des groupes de partage et de soutien

Les groupes de soutien offrent une plateforme pour partager des vécus personnels, découvrir des stratégies efficaces et s’entraider tout au long du processus de rétablissement.

Prendre contact avec un professionnel en santé mentale

Faire appel à un psychologue spécialisé dans les dépendances comportementales et pratiquant la TCC permet de comprendre les origines du problème et de recevoir un suivi sur mesure.

Mettre à profit les outils numériques et applications pour suivre l’évolution

Des applications et des outils numériques permettent non seulement de suivre les progrès, mais aussi d’envoyer des rappels positifs et de renforcer les habitudes saines pour limiter l’exposition à la pornographie.

Mettre en œuvre un plan d’action clair pour s’éloigner de l’addiction

Établir des objectifs concrets et réalistes

Le processus de sevrage s’initie par des objectifs concrets, comme la réduction du temps passé à regarder du porno. Il doit aussi inclure une analyse des causes profondes et des bénéfices futurs qui motivent l’abstinence.

Mettre en place des mécanismes pour réguler les pulsions

L’un des aspects importants de la gestion des comportements indésirables est la reconnaissance des déclencheurs. La TCC, les activités constructives et le soutien de proches sont des outils essentiels.

Mettre en place un environnement favorable au bien-être

Bloquer l’accès aux sites pornographiques grâce à des extensions de navigateur ou des applications de contrôle parental peut être un moyen de se protéger. D’autre part, privilégier des activités créatives et enrichissantes peut réduire les envies compulsives.

Se forger une nouvelle identité épanouie, loin de la pornographie

Adopter des démarches responsables et bienveillantes envers soi-même

S’engager dans des activités bénéfiques, telles que la méditation ou le yoga, favorise la connexion corps-esprit et aide à maîtriser les envies impulsives

Adopter une approche éthique de la sexualité

Une sexualité éthique repose sur l’égalité, le consentement et la responsabilité, pour une vie intime épanouie Cesser la pornographie implique une réflexion profonde, des ressources adaptées et du soutien. En comprenant les mécanismes sous-jacents de cette dépendance et en suivant un plan précis, il est possible de retrouver un équilibre de vie et une sexualité plus épanouie. Adopter des habitudes saines et prendre conscience des effets négatifs est un premier pas il existe des ressources pour vous aider par exemple le programme de du prestataire https://www.chastete.fr.

Des liens sincères favorisent l’épanouissement personnel

Établir des liens sincères avec un partenaire permet d’éprouver des moments intimes vrais, loin des influences extérieures

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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: [Music] to me porn is a drug these words belong to alex a porn consuming young man which i interviewed for my co-author book on how porn affects our health he was six years old when he first stumbled upon porn and the images were so strong he told me he even had trouble sleeping afterwards today he is 19 and still haven’t been able to quit porn it’s like having sober periods with relapses he explained where i need more and more aggressive porn to experience the same kick would you think about this a society where our attitudes aren’t constantly being shaped by porn a society where porn doesn’t get to set the standard for our sexuality our relationships our attitudes before we even have a chance to explore these amazing things for ourselves my favorite sitcom of all times is friends if you do not know that one and i definitely think you should it’s the very popular american tv show about six friends living in new york city in one of the episodes the two characters joey and chandler had by mistake may i add gotten free cable tv access to porn oh happy day right i mean they were so happy they did everything in their power to keep that tv on and that kind of made me think what was it about porn back then that made joey and chandler want to keep their tv showing pouring on and what is it about today’s mainstream porn that is just so important we talk about too many nowadays porn is the number one teacher on sex education and if that’s the case it’s only fair that we ask ourselves what curriculum does this teacher use in 2012 natalie purcell who’s a phd in sociology from the university of california did a content analysis where she looked at over 100 of the roughly 250 most popular and best-selling porn movies she found aggressive abusive and cursive acts in almost every single movie the analysis also showed how porn ever since the 70s has become increasingly more aggressive and humiliating and by the end of the time period that was analyzed which was the 2000s acts like atm gagging double penetration and even choking were included in almost every single movie now atm is not the money machine it’s actually an act called ass to mouth meaning that the penis first enters the anus and then it goes directly into the mouth and gagging is an act where the penis goes so far down the throat that basically your gag reflexes will start to kick in it wasn’t until the 2000s when these acts were heavily introduced in mainstream porn 20 years before that it was basically unheard of in another interesting study this one going back to as early as 2005 by anna bridget’s and associates looked at a random sample of 50 out of the 275 best-selling most rented u.s port movies from the time period of december 2004 to june 2005 then added these 50 movies they then randomly selected 304 scenes and analyzed them and here’s what they found about 9 out of 10 scenes contained physical aggression now physical aggression was defined primarily as gagging remember the penis down the throat slapping and even hair pulling among other things also about 5 out of 10 scenes contained verbal aggression which then primarily was defined as name calling where the most common names that were used were [ __ ] and [ __ ] most of the people that were exposed to this aggression were women and what was their typical response to this aggression you think almost everyone reacted either positive or neutral almost never negative let’s apply this to everyday life shall we let’s say i’d given you a gentle stroke on the cheek i’ll probably see a smile on your face had i instead slapped you you would perhaps not be as happy with me am i right yeah i would assume important the typical response to aggression is precisely the opposite of what you would otherwise expect in real life in real life you will be mad at me for slapping you but important either you remain neutral or you even groan and ask for more we just have to stop here for a second and consider the message that this is sending what pressure what norms what standards is created from this i once met with a guy who shared his concerns about his girlfriend never screaming and moaning like they do in porn and he goes what am i doing wrong and then he says you know what maybe i should try to strangle her that she will probably enjoy that was kind of my reaction as well yeah i’ve educated on this issue for about 10 years now i met with kids from the ages of five and six whom stumbled upon pornography and i met with young girls comparing themselves to the very often extreme standards set by porn thinking they aren’t good enough not pretty enough not sexy enough i met with teenagers who compulsively consume pornography on a regular basis doing everything in their power to quit often unsuccessfully and i met with guys so eager to please and so eager to perform just like they do in porn and when they aren’t getting the typical porn response from their partner in bed a lot of them blame themselves for not being able to perform sexually i was right in the middle of a talk about porn when a mom raised her hand and she stood up grabbed the mic and said the other day my eight-year-old boy came running out of his room hysterically crying at first the little boy had refused to tell his parents what had happened he did not want to talk about it but eventually it became clear he’d stumble upon porn but it wasn’t so much the actual porn that he had seen that upset him he was crying because he thought this this thing that i just saw important is what my mom and dad do to each other in bed more than 50 years of research has shown us what porn causes first porn can produce attitudes which then goes and trivializes sexual aggression research proves a strong link between porn consumption and acting out sexually aggressive acts like sexual assault and here’s the thing even porn that’s non-aggressive can have these effects on our attitudes due to the fact that whenever a person in porn is being dehumanized that’s when the change in attitudes is happening i mean are we getting this this is actually what porn can do to us now not all of course who consume pornography will go out and sexually assault someone that’s like not what we’re saying here but the fact remains that for an alarming amount of sex offenders porn was a triggering factor leading them to be less sensitive to sexual aggression this is not rocket science this is basic human psychology what we see often we get used to let’s go back to joey and chandler for a second my favorite sitcom friends what was it that was going on inside their brains that made them so eager to keep that tv on neuroscientists have found that pornography hijacks the reward pathway in the brain and can become a compulsive behavior with addictive qualities in 2014 dr valerie voon and i think this must be stated for the wreckage she’s a global authority on addiction and also the leading researcher in the neuroscience department at the university of cambridge she released her long-awaited study a study that provided groundbreaking results on how viewing porn affects the brain and the study showed how compulsive porn users have real similarities on several levels to those addicted to drugs the image that you see here is an illustration of a brain scan image that shows the brain activity of healthy volunteers when shown pornography versus compulsive users and as you can see when the compulsive users were shown porn their response was much higher indicating that they were both more triggered by the porn shown to them and that they also experienced a stronger urge for porn so the compulsive users had a greater wanting for porn but they still did not have a higher sexual desire and the liking for it which is a finding that should debunk the myth that those who are compulsive porn users must simply be people with a greater sexual desire also having a warning for something but not a liking for it is a finding that really fits like a glove with the current definition of addiction the facts are starting to pile up and if you ask me it’s just a matter of time and research before pornography addiction is formally acknowledged but until then we have to continue listening to those who are brave enough to share their stories with us okay so i think you would agree with me that we definitely have a challenge here right i mean we have 24 7 unlimited access to physically verbally aggressive material that clearly has an impact on our attitudes relationships sexuality intimacy possibly even causing addiction therefore we need to act now we need to act quickly if we want to change this because as of now this train is headed in the wrong direction so do you want a solution yeah i can sense that i mean i really think it’s so important that we talk porn okay with education as one of our main strategies we’re going to start the conversation about porn we are going to talk to our students kids colleagues teachers family members neighbors whoever wants to listen to us we must include a critical discussion about porn in schools in workplaces in locker rooms at home just like we disrupted the idea that smoking was just a harmless and a social thing to do and just like we’re teaching critical thinking about media and advertisement we are going to disrupt old ideas and beliefs about porn and start teaching critical thinking about it with education and conversation that creates awareness we are going to equip the next generation with the mindset that won’t make them easy targets i sat down with a father who wanted to share his best tip on how to talk to your kid about porn well he said first you got to make sure that the conversation you’re having is happening while driving your car okay so you’re driving and your kid is next to you first you don’t have to look straight at each other so that helps right and second he goes and he almost like whispered and says your kid can’t go anywhere whatever works right obviously just having a conversation about porn even if it’s you know the really awesome car conversation isn’t going to solve everything this is not a small problem therefore no you know quick fix solutions exist but i believe that by teaching a critical thinking a critical mindset to this we’re off to a pretty good start and now if you’re kind of wondering is this educational strategy is it really working i want to show you a message that we received on instagram just a couple of weeks ago to changing attitudes and changing attitudes is a youth organization where i’m ceo and we basically educate on this issue now let me read this to you because it is pretty awesome i would just like to thank you for being a contributing factor to me having completely quit porn i’ve been porn free for two months now and i’m feeling much better than before also i feel i’m no longer contributing to an offensive and obnoxious industry how awesome is this right to me this is this is what it’s all about yeah [Applause] what do you think about this a society based on equality based on consent based on sexual health where we get to explore and where we get to be curious and where we get to decide what we want what we think is sexy what turns us on but to get there we need to start the conversation about porn now we need to anchor ourselves in research stats science real life stories for too long the health consequences generated by porn has been more or less completely ignored but it’s time we changed that which is why i’m leaving you with this how are you going to talk about porn thank you very much you .

Déroulement de la vidéo:

0.03 [Music]
0.03 to me
0.03 porn is a drug
0.03 these words belong to alex a porn
0.03 consuming young man which i interviewed
0.03 for my co-author book on how porn
0.03 affects our health
0.03 he was six years old when he first
0.03 stumbled upon porn
0.03 and the images were so strong he told me
0.03 he even had trouble sleeping afterwards
0.03 today he is 19 and still haven&;t been
0.03 able to quit porn
0.03 it&;s like having sober periods with
0.03 relapses he explained where i need more
0.03 and more aggressive porn to experience
0.03 the same kick
0.03 would you think about this
0.03 a society
0.03 where our attitudes aren&;t constantly
0.03 being shaped by porn
0.03 a society where porn doesn&;t get to set
0.03 the standard for our sexuality
0.03 our relationships our attitudes
0.03 before we even have a chance to explore
0.03 these amazing things for ourselves
0.03 my favorite sitcom of all times is
0.03 friends
0.03 if you do not know that one and i
0.03 definitely think you should it&;s the
0.03 very popular american tv show
0.03 about six friends living in new york
0.03 city
0.03 in one of the episodes the two
0.03 characters joey and chandler had by
0.03 mistake may i add gotten free cable tv
0.03 access to porn
0.03 oh happy day right
0.03 i mean they were so happy they did
0.03 everything in their power to keep that
0.03 tv on
0.03 and that kind of made me think what was
0.03 it about porn back then
0.03 that made joey and chandler want to keep
0.03 their tv showing pouring on
0.03 and what is it about today&;s mainstream
0.03 porn that is just so important we talk
0.03 about
0.03 too many nowadays
0.03 porn is the number one teacher on sex
0.03 education and if that&;s the case it&;s
0.03 only fair that we ask ourselves
0.03 what curriculum does this teacher use
0.03 in 2012
0.03 natalie purcell who&;s a phd in sociology
0.03 from the university of california
0.03 did a content analysis where she looked
0.03 at over 100 of the roughly 250
0.03 most popular and best-selling porn
0.03 movies
0.03 she found
0.03 aggressive
0.03 abusive
0.03 and cursive acts
0.03 in almost every single movie
0.03 the analysis also showed how porn ever
0.03 since the 70s has become increasingly
0.03 more aggressive and humiliating
0.03 and by the end of the time period that
0.03 was analyzed which was the 2000s
0.03 acts like atm
0.03 gagging
0.03 double penetration and even choking were
0.03 included in almost every single movie
0.03 now atm is not the money machine it&;s
0.03 actually an act called ass to mouth
0.03 meaning that the penis first enters the
0.03 anus and then it goes directly into the
0.03 mouth
0.03 and gagging is an act where the penis
0.03 goes so far down the throat that
0.03 basically your gag reflexes will start
0.03 to kick in
0.03 it wasn&;t until the 2000s when these
0.03 acts were heavily introduced in
0.03 mainstream porn 20 years before that it
0.03 was basically unheard of
0.03 in another interesting study this one
0.03 going back to as early as 2005 by anna
0.03 bridget&;s and associates
0.03 looked at a random sample of 50
0.03 out of the 275
0.03 best-selling most rented u.s port movies
0.03 from the time period of december 2004
0.03 to june 2005
0.03 then added these 50 movies they then
0.03 randomly selected 304 scenes and
0.03 analyzed them
0.03 and here&;s what they found
0.03 about 9 out of 10 scenes contained
0.03 physical aggression
0.03 now physical aggression was defined
0.03 primarily as gagging
0.03 remember the penis down the throat
0.03 slapping
0.03 and even hair pulling among other things
0.03 also about 5 out of 10 scenes contained
0.03 verbal aggression
0.03 which then primarily was defined as name
0.03 calling where the most common names that
0.03 were used were [ __ ]
0.03 and [ __ ]
0.03 most of the people
0.03 that were exposed to this aggression
0.03 were women
0.03 and what was
0.03 their typical response to this
0.03 aggression you think
0.03 almost everyone reacted either positive
0.03 or neutral
0.03 almost never negative
0.03 let&;s apply this to everyday life shall
0.03 we let&;s say i&;d given you a gentle
0.03 stroke on the cheek i&;ll probably see a
0.03 smile on your face
0.03 had i instead
0.03 slapped you
0.03 you would perhaps not be as happy with
0.03 me
0.03 am i right
0.03 yeah i would assume
0.03 important the typical response to
0.03 aggression is precisely the opposite of
0.03 what you would otherwise expect in real
0.03 life
0.03 in real life you will be mad at me for
0.03 slapping you but important
0.03 either you remain neutral or you even
0.03 groan and ask for more
0.03 we just have to stop here for a second
0.03 and consider the message that this is
0.03 sending what pressure what norms what
0.03 standards is created from this
0.03 i
0.03 once met with a guy
0.03 who shared his concerns about his
0.03 girlfriend never screaming and moaning
0.03 like they do in porn
0.03 and he goes what am i doing wrong
0.03 and then he says
0.03 you know what
0.03 maybe i should try to strangle her
0.03 that she will probably enjoy
0.03 that was kind of my reaction as well
0.03 yeah
0.03 i&;ve educated on this issue for about 10
0.03 years now
0.03 i met with kids
0.03 from the ages of five and six
0.03 whom stumbled upon pornography
0.03 and i met with young girls comparing
0.03 themselves to the very often extreme
0.03 standards set by porn thinking they
0.03 aren&;t good enough not pretty enough not
0.03 sexy enough
0.03 i met with teenagers who compulsively
0.03 consume pornography on a regular basis
0.03 doing everything in their power to quit
0.03 often unsuccessfully
0.03 and i met with guys
0.03 so eager to please and so eager to
0.03 perform just like they do in porn
0.03 and when they aren&;t getting the typical
0.03 porn response from their partner in bed
0.03 a lot of them blame themselves for not
0.03 being able to perform sexually
0.03 i was right in the middle of a talk
0.03 about porn when a mom
0.03 raised her hand
0.03 and she stood up grabbed the mic and
0.03 said
0.03 the other day
0.03 my eight-year-old boy came running out
0.03 of his room hysterically crying
0.03 at first the little boy had refused to
0.03 tell his parents what had happened he
0.03 did not want to talk about it
0.03 but eventually it became clear he&;d
0.03 stumble upon porn
0.03 but it wasn&;t so much the actual porn
0.03 that he had seen that upset him
0.03 he was crying because he thought
0.03 this this thing that i just saw
0.03 important
0.03 is what my mom and dad do to each other
0.03 in bed
0.03 more than 50 years of research has shown
0.03 us what porn causes
0.03 first porn can produce attitudes which
0.03 then goes and trivializes sexual
0.03 aggression
0.03 research proves a strong link between
0.03 porn consumption and acting out sexually
0.03 aggressive acts like sexual assault
0.03 and here&;s the thing even porn that&;s
0.03 non-aggressive can have these effects on
0.03 our attitudes due to the fact that
0.03 whenever a person in porn is being
0.03 dehumanized that&;s when the change in
0.03 attitudes
0.03 is happening
0.03 i mean are we getting this this is
0.03 actually what porn
0.03 can do to us
0.03 now not all of course who consume
0.03 pornography will go out and sexually
0.03 assault someone that&;s like not what
0.03 we&;re saying here but the fact remains
0.03 that for an alarming amount of sex
0.03 offenders porn was a triggering factor
0.03 leading them to be less sensitive to
0.03 sexual aggression
0.03 this is not rocket science this is
0.03 basic human psychology
0.03 what we see often we get used to
0.03 let&;s go back to
0.03 joey and chandler for a second
0.03 my favorite sitcom friends
0.03 what was it that was going on inside
0.03 their brains that made them so eager to
0.03 keep that tv on
0.03 neuroscientists have found that
0.03 pornography hijacks the reward pathway
0.03 in the brain and can become a compulsive
0.03 behavior with addictive qualities
0.03 in 2014 dr valerie voon and i think this
0.03 must be stated for the wreckage she&;s a
0.03 global authority on addiction
0.03 and also the leading researcher in the
0.03 neuroscience department at the
0.03 university of cambridge
0.03 she released her long-awaited study
0.03 a study that provided groundbreaking
0.03 results on how viewing porn affects the
0.03 brain
0.03 and the study showed how compulsive porn
0.03 users
0.03 have real similarities on several levels
0.03 to those addicted to drugs
0.03 the image that you see here is an
0.03 illustration of a brain scan image that
0.03 shows the brain activity of healthy
0.03 volunteers when shown pornography
0.03 versus compulsive users
0.03 and as you can see when the compulsive
0.03 users were shown porn their response was
0.03 much higher
0.03 indicating that they were both more
0.03 triggered by the porn shown to them and
0.03 that they also experienced a stronger
0.03 urge for porn
0.03 so the compulsive users had a greater
0.03 wanting for porn but
0.03 they still did not have a higher sexual
0.03 desire and the liking for it
0.03 which is a finding that should debunk
0.03 the myth that those who are compulsive
0.03 porn users must simply be people with a
0.03 greater sexual desire
0.03 also having a warning for something but
0.03 not a liking for it
0.03 is a finding that really fits like a
0.03 glove with the current definition of
0.03 addiction
0.03 the facts are starting to pile up and if
0.03 you ask me it&;s just a matter of time
0.03 and research before pornography
0.03 addiction is formally acknowledged
0.03 but until then
0.03 we have to continue listening to those
0.03 who are brave enough to share their
0.03 stories with us
0.03 okay so
0.03 i think you would agree with me that we
0.03 definitely have a challenge here right
0.03 i mean we have 24 7 unlimited access to
0.03 physically
0.03 verbally aggressive material that
0.03 clearly has an impact on our attitudes
0.03 relationships sexuality intimacy
0.03 possibly even causing addiction
0.03 therefore we need to act now we need to
0.03 act quickly if we want to change this
0.03 because as of now this train is headed
0.03 in the wrong direction
0.03 so
0.03 do you want a solution
0.03 yeah i can sense that
0.03 i mean i really think it&;s so important
0.03 that we talk
0.03 porn
0.03 okay
0.03 with education as one of our main
0.03 strategies we&;re going to start the
0.03 conversation about porn
0.03 we are going to talk to our students
0.03 kids colleagues teachers family members
0.03 neighbors whoever wants to listen to us
0.03 we must include a critical discussion
0.03 about porn in schools in workplaces in
0.03 locker rooms at home
0.03 just like we disrupted the idea that
0.03 smoking was just a harmless and a social
0.03 thing to do
0.03 and just like we&;re teaching critical
0.03 thinking about media and advertisement
0.03 we are going to disrupt
0.03 old ideas and beliefs about porn and
0.03 start teaching critical thinking about
0.03 it
0.03 with education and conversation that
0.03 creates awareness we are going to equip
0.03 the next generation with the mindset
0.03 that won&;t make them easy targets
0.03 i
0.03 sat down with a father who
0.03 wanted to share his best tip on how to
0.03 talk to your kid about porn
0.03 well he said first you got to make sure
0.03 that the conversation you&;re having is
0.03 happening while driving your car
0.03 okay so you&;re driving and your kid is
0.03 next to you
0.03 first you don&;t have to look straight at
0.03 each other so that helps right
0.03 and second he goes and he almost like
0.03 whispered and says your kid can&;t go
0.03 anywhere
0.03 whatever works right
0.03 obviously just having a conversation
0.03 about porn even if it&;s you know the
0.03 really awesome car conversation
0.03 isn&;t going to solve everything
0.03 this is not a small problem therefore no
0.03 you know quick fix solutions exist
0.03 but i believe that by teaching a
0.03 critical thinking a critical mindset to
0.03 this we&;re off to a pretty good start
0.03 and now if you&;re kind of wondering is
0.03 this educational strategy is it really
0.03 working
0.03 i want to show you a message
0.03 that we received on instagram just a
0.03 couple of weeks ago to changing
0.03 attitudes
0.03 and changing attitudes is a youth
0.03 organization where i&;m ceo and we
0.03 basically educate on this issue
0.03 now let me read this to you because it
0.03 is pretty awesome
0.03 i would just like to thank you for being
0.03 a contributing factor to me having
0.03 completely quit porn
0.03 i&;ve been porn free for two months now
0.03 and i&;m feeling much better than before
0.03 also i feel i&;m no longer contributing
0.03 to an offensive and obnoxious industry
0.03 how awesome is this
0.03 right
0.03 to me this is this is what it&;s all
0.03 about yeah
0.03 [Applause]
0.03 what do you think about this
0.03 a
0.03 society
0.03 based on equality
0.03 based on consent based on sexual health
0.03 where we get to explore and where we get
0.03 to be curious
0.03 and where we get to decide what we want
0.03 what we think is sexy what turns us on
0.03 but to get there we need to start the
0.03 conversation about porn now
0.03 we need to anchor ourselves in research
0.03 stats science real life stories
0.03 for too long
0.03 the health consequences generated by
0.03 porn has been more or less completely
0.03 ignored
0.03 but it&;s time we changed that
0.03 which is why i&;m leaving you with this
0.03 how are you going to talk about porn
0.03 thank you very much
0.03 you
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